Use the bait and switch method. Stop limiting the ability of men to patronize and re educate him like a child.
If a salary discrepancy is due to your husband losing a job or one of you going back to school your concern and support will be a big part of your partner s success.
How to motivate your husband to make more money. So the first thing to consider is not talking about how you want him to earn more. Replace his complacency and negative attitude with optimism and a motivation to live well. This requires work on your part.
We need to understand that he will not. It sounds a little like parenting doesn t it. Adopt your husband with his habits and shortcomings.
This will help him to make decisions and develop. 1 find a successful community leader to mentor him a pastor or a life coach someone who outwardly lives with. He already knows anyway.
Trying to explain or show him how to make more money is the same as saying you re not very capable. That is a sure way to create a lot of resentment and tension in your relationship. To motivate a husband to earn more money you need.
Your husband might know he needs to take action but not know where to start. But positive conditioning and a reward system is an effective way to groom good behavior in people. Be sure to make important.
Take some of the load off. Best place to start is to increase your husband s circle of friends and role models. Noticing when your husband does something helpful and praising him for it.
Getting your husband to reason out why he is down and out will help him get his motivation back. Give the opportunity to.